DJ Boot Camp - Week #2
Recruits, congratulations on finishing the first week! By looking at the many posts to the thread, I can tell that this has been one hell of a power-packed week for many of you… and this is only the...
View ArticleThe official Borderline Personality Disorder thread [Merged]
I think Paradox's (temporary) closing of the 'marrying a BPD' thread brings to light the fact that these Cluster-B threads can become long and tedious (more so to members who have been here longer and...
View ArticleOver 30 DJ's
Any observations on how the game changes? I read the posts and it seems that many of the DJ's benefit from being an undergrad at a college with many HB's, Where most of the people don't work 45 hours a...
View ArticleWomen & Sex
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=OL61JreooRk One of the single most annoying tropes I read / hear from men (more so than women) is the "Women are just as / more sexual than men" canard. Nothing stops me...
View ArticleFlattering Things Your Ex Did
I'm not talking about things she did when you were together, I'm talking about things she did long after the two of you broke up. Here's some examples: I found a poem online that an ex wrote about us...
View ArticleStagnation at SoSuave: When Frame is Weakness
You know what you like: You don't cold approach because you don't like it. You don't go to night clubs because you don't like them. You don't text girls because you don't like it. You next first and...
View ArticleOne of the most important posts ever!
Yes, I know this is in the hall of fame but I doubt many of you have read it when you really should! I posted an article last week about getting back with my ex, and everyone's resounding answer was...
View ArticleI feel sorry for women
I went out last night had a great time. Met a few really intelligent girls. Me and my friend went home with a few. I didn't get lucky he did though. But I was talking to these girls and one thing stood...
View Article"I have a boyfriend"
4 words that will will throw me off in a convo. How do I respond to this? Say we're talking and I ask her out, and she throws this line at me? I wouldn't go after her after hearing this, but how to do...
View ArticleWhat was your breaking point from nice guy to dj?
What was everyone's breaking point, when they realized that being a nice guy was getting them no sex...? was it when u got dumped by a girl, or u just woke up one day and realized that jerks win or? i...
View ArticleMy "Algorithm"
A former plate of mine and current close friend (yes its possible to have a close platonic female friend) gives me a hard time and calls my dating process an "Algorithm". She gives me shyte about it,...
View ArticleThe counseling profession and their mindgames.
Here is the short version of a recent 'event' - Been dating HB7 for a while now - almost a year. Good woman, conventional morals, mainly respectful but a tad avoidant and passive. She thinks that I am...
View ArticleAD we need your input on how to be a mystery
Hi, What to do you say about how to act mysterious around women you are interested in. I mean, if they dont ask you any questions, you don't tell them any thing about yourself. But if they ask you...
View ArticleHow many of you are getting laid tonight?
I KNOW I am. 24 yr old blonde/blue eyes, petite, just how I like them.
View ArticleAccepting BS - where to draw the line
Hey guys, Was a member years ago. This site combined with real world practice has made me 1000x better with women with dating. I'm at the point where getting a date and closing that date into either a...
View ArticleRed flag: When she's a little too "into you" too quick.
Whenever you don't keep your ego in check and meet some hot chick that has you riding high off not only her looks but how she gushes all over you etc. Keep your ego in check and beware. Doesn't mean...
View Articleeveryone, if you had one peice of advice to pass on to someone about women...
what would it be? Mine would be, and it literary took me 25 years to get this, the "motif" of my life is me giving time to women who were in the end undeserving of my time. Do not let your ego or self...
View ArticleWays to Increase Actual and Perceived Value
We all know that in general a woman must perceive your value being higher than hers in order to be interested in you. A woman will almost never "downgrade" to a man who she sees as below her in value....
View ArticleHow do u handle chicks that blow u off?
Here is my dillema. Ive been seeing this girl now for like 2 months now. We have gone out a few times etc. Messed around a bit ( no sex yet). We were supposed to go out today and she said she would...
View ArticleThe smoothest thing you ever said to a woman!
The smoothest thing you ever said to a woman! Its been said that men lust with there eyes and woman lust with there ears, so lets all share some of those great spontaneous lines that melted their...
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